Imagine waking up without that familiar weight on your chest—no more dread about whether today will be another day of disappointment, frustration, or feeling like you're in this alone.
You’re no longer the one holding everything together, trying to make up for what your partner won’t do. Instead, you say what you need without over-explaining, micromanaging, or waiting for them to "finally get it."
Gone are the days of resenting how much falls on you. You trust yourself to set boundaries—not just with them, but with yourself—so you’re no longer carrying responsibilities that were never yours to begin with.
And when your partner lets you down? You don’t spiral into frustration, resentment, or another exhausting argument. You stand firm, express yourself clearly, and handle conflict in a way that actually moves things forward.
You deserve love even in the messy moments.
After growing up with emotionally immature parents, you likely...
Feel stuck in the same arguments, carrying the weight of the relationship while nothing really changes.
Notice how small slights or hurts from your partner trigger intense reactions, turning minor disagreements into major conflicts.
Tired of having to spell out every need—only to feel frustrated, unheard, or like nothing really changes.
Feel like no matter how clearly you express your frustration, it always gets dismissed, minimized, or turned back on you
Exhaustively go towards your partner during conflicts, desperately trying to make them see exactly where they went wrong.
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Lets set the record straight
It’s that your trauma is hijacking your relationship—turning every letdown into proof that you’re alone in this, leaving you resentful, unheard, and exhausted from holding it all together.
It's not that you're broken or "too much."
That's the reality waiting for you.
The secure, supportive relationship you’ve been craving? The one where you’re not carrying it all, waiting for your partner to finally step up? It’s not just a fantasy—I’ve helped countless people just like you create it.
It starts with learning the skills no one taught you growing up—skills that help you stop managing everything alone, set boundaries without guilt, and communicate in a way that actually gets through. This is how you build a relationship that feels like a partnership—not another burden to bear.
It's time we change that.
How To Love After Childhood Trauma
introducing
A game-changing, learning experience packed with powerful strategies to help you break free from self-doubt, toxic patterns, and self-sabotage—so you can finally create the deep, lasting love you’ve been craving.
"It's like a lightbulb went off in my head!"
You’ll see how trauma pushes you to take on more, manage everything, or fight to be heard. Spotting these patterns helps you stop reacting from frustration and start responding in ways that actually shift the dynamic. This is how you break the cycle for good.
You’ll build the ability to hold your ground, even when your partner shuts down or disappoints you. This is about strengthening your nervous system so you’re not stuck reacting in frustration—so instead of feeling drained and resentful, you stay clear and in control.
Here's What You'll Learn
Unmasking Trauma Patterns
Calm Core Training
Phase One
Phase Two
LET'S BREAK it DOWN
Here, you’ll gain the key skills that healthy partners use to create strong, successful relationships. Learn how to communicate clearly, navigate conflict fairly, and set boundaries that strengthen your connection. These are the skills that make real love thrive.
Skills that actually connect you
Phase Three
In this phase, you'll learn how to communicate your needs in a way that actually lands—without defensiveness, miscommunication, or feeling like you're talking in circles. With practical tools, you’ll handle tough conversations with clarity and confidence, even when things get messy. No more feeling unheard or stuck in the same frustrating cycles.
Clearing the Path to Love
Phase Four
By the end of this phase, you’ll know when you’ve done enough—and when it’s time to step back and protect your well-being. You’ll have the clarity to see whether your relationship is actually working for you—without second-guessing yourself.
Know Your
True Worth
Phase Five
Bonus Phase!
These are the breakthroughs you're about to experience:
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Stop letting past wounds dictate your reactions—so you’re responding to what’s actually happening, not just reliving old betrayals.
Set boundaries that actually shift the dynamic—so you’re no longer carrying the relationship alone.
Regain control over your emotions—so when they shut down or disappoint you, you stay steady instead of spiraling into frustration.
Communicate in a way that actually lands, so you’re not stuck over-explaining or repeating yourself.
Stop doing all the work—so love finally feels balanced, where you feel supported instead of constantly proving your worth.
Get clear on whether your relationship can actually change, so you stop questioning yourself & make decisions with confidence.
Don't believe it's possible?
Check the stats
*Based on survey data submitted from randomly selected 'How to Love' Graduates
600+ Students
reported that the course elevated their sense of self-worth and self-love after experiencing childhood trauma.
reported that the course was instrumental in helping them create the love they had been longing for.
97% of Students
100% of Students
enrolled since How to Love took off two years ago.
reported that the course was fundamental in helping them recognize and stop their trauma-driven behaviours.
100% of Students
"I wish I'd had this class twenty years earlier! I was so frustrated from my romantic disasters that I took a break to raise my son. He's off to college now. Picking up the pieces, I learned through Morgan Pommell's excellent class all about WHY I kept repeating these patterns and how to break them. I no longer blame myself, and I am confident in my skills to manage rupture and repair in relationship. I highly recommend this class!"
She wishes she did it sooner.
She broke the cycle.
"The program really supported me in getting out of a a relationship that would have taken me down longer. After what seems like a lifetime of failed attempts at love, Morgan showed me that there is a way to stop the cycle!"
"I’ve been to therapy and read books but this course has helped me in such a significant way! It helps you understand and recognize your relationship behavior and most importantly how to regulate your emotions. This course should seriously be taught in schools, it has changed my life, thank you Morgan!"
He found it more helpful than therapy.
Take it from past students
Are unsure if what you experienced was "trauma."
Are in a "situationship" or a serious relationship.
Feel like too much has
happened & it's not "fixable."
Have a partner who isn't willing to do any work.
Never been
to therapy or coaching.
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You can learn how to love after childhood trauma even if you...
We can't control our partners, but by changing how you show up, you can start to shift the whole dynamic (and this way, you’ll at least know you've done your part).
I have successfully helped people create healthy love after 40 years of trauma driven behaviour;
it's never too late.
This course is a practical "how-to" guide designed for those ready to put in the everyday work—no previous experience in therapy or coaching is necessary.
This program is about examining how you can show up better romantically; it doesn't matter whether your married or only a couple months into something.
It's okay if the traditional definition of 'trauma' doesn't fit for you. If the past is impacting your present relationships, this program was designed for you.
Don't know if you can get
help from an online program.
This isn't a typical online program - it is strategically designed to get you results. I use my years of working in education to help you actually see changes.
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I created How to Love for people like you—who are trying so hard to make it work, but keep hitting the same wall.
Yes, you’re giving it everything you’ve got—but you’re relying on the only tools you’ve ever had. And that's perfectly understandable! If you didn't grow up experiencing or seeing healthy love, how could you know what it takes to build and maintain a healthy, loving relationship?
But you deserve more than just trying to hold it all together. You deserve to know what real, healthy love feels like. And that’s why I built this program—to give you the skills you were never shown, to break the old patterns, and to finally give your relationship a real chance.
You can’t know if your relationship is truly compatible until you’ve learned the skills that every healthy relationship needs to thrive.
Self-Paced Course
instant access to all course materials
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
Lifetime access to the course
1 payment of $497 $447 usd
1 payment of $497 USD $322 usd
1 payment of $497 usd $322 USD
select your transformation
Intimate Group Coaching & Course
instant access to all course materials
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
Lifetime access to the course
$797 usd $547 USD
PAYMENT PLAN AVAILABLE
4 weekly Group coaching calls, starting Feb. 20th
(Feb 20th, 26th, March 5th, & 12th. Replays provided to those who can't attend live)
USE THE CODE VDAY25 AT CHECKOUT
Note: Spots are extremely limited to this offer so I can fully help you get unstuck in your relationship. During our zoom calls, you’ll get direct feedback from me on the patterns keeping you exhausted and resentful—so instead of spinning in frustration, questioning yourself, and carrying it all alone, you’ll know exactly what to do next to create the real change you crave.
Note: This is a self-paced course with on-demand video modules, a PDF workbook, and printable resources—so you can dive in whenever it works for you.
$797 USD $547 USD
(payment Plan Available)
Intimate Group Coaching + Course
INSTANT ACCESS TO ALL COURSE MATERIALS
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
lifetime ACCESS TO THE COURSE curriculum
4 weekly Group coaching calls, starting Feb. 20th
1 payment of $497 $447 usd
(payment Plan Available)
One payment of $797
(payment Plan Available)
(Feb 20th, 26th, March 5th, & 12th. Replays provided to those who can't attend live)
Note: Spots are extremely limited to this offer so I can fully help you get unstuck in your relationship. During our zoom calls, you’ll get direct feedback from me on the patterns keeping you exhausted and resentful—so instead of spinning in frustration, questioning yourself, and carrying it all alone, you’ll know exactly what to do next to create the real change you crave.
Students have been getting results like this:
I'm Morgan, and I help you get a handle on your past so it stops sabotaging your present.
As a certified relationship coach and Doctoral researcher, I’ve spent the last 10 years developing a framework that helps you release trauma-driven behaviors and move toward romantic connection with skill, ease, and confidence. As a survivor in a healthy, loving relationship, I bring my own lessons and experiences into my work as well—helping you create your own path to healing love.
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"I learned so much from this course and recommend it to friends and family. I now feel much more confident that I can communicate with my partner, and I can see our relationship is changing for the better already, thank you so much Morgan!"
— Student
“This course was more helpful than therapy”
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“This program helped me level-up my business!”
Getting ahead of your trauma-driven behaviors so you can turn toward healthy, secure connection with your partner.
De-escalate discussions, turning common arguments into constructive conversations.
Recognizing your worth outside the relationship, so you no longer rely solely on your partners validation.
After learning to love peacefully, your life looks like this:
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Lay the foundations for a balanced give-and-take of emotional support, moving away from one-sided love.
Taking the necessary steps to begin trusting your own reality and no longer second-guessing your feelings or experiences.
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This program teaches you the relationship skills you never learned growing up. You'll discover how to soothe your anxious thoughts, communicate your needs clearly, and create ways to feel secure even when things get tough. It's about transforming your relationships from a source of stress to a source of support and love.
Ready to get off the rollercoaster of doubt and finally feel secure in your relationship?
This is for you if:
You are ready to feel chosen not just by others, but by yourself.
You know your childhood impacts the way you show up in relationships.
You are tired of working so hard just to be happy in your relationships.
It's probably not for you if...
You aren't wanting to see your role in creating your relationship distress.
You aren't ready to give up on the toxicity and conflict.
You're in an abusive relationship. In that case, special support is needed.
Boundaries are the unsung heroes of healthy relationships. They're not just lines in the sand; they're your personal code for what's acceptable and what's not. By setting clear boundaries, you protect your emotional well-being, demonstrate self respect, and finally feel safe in your relationships.
Grab your seat today and get my bonus boundaries workbook!
FREE GUIDE
The Relationship Boundaries
Workbook
Bonus!
Self-Paced Course
instant access to all course materials
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
Lifetime access to the course
bonus! setting boundaries Workbook
1 payment of $497 $447 usd
1 payment of $497 USD $322 usd
1 payment of $497 usd
(payment Plan Available)
select your transformation
USE THE CODE VDAY25 AT CHECKOUT
1 payment of $497 $447 usd
1 payment of $497 USD $322 usd
Self-Paced Course
instant access to all course materials
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
Lifetime access to the course
1 payment of $497 usd $322 USD
select your transformation
Intimate Group Coaching & Course
instant access to all course materials
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
Lifetime access to the course
$797 usd $547 USD
PAYMENT PLAN AVAILABLE
4 weekly Group coaching calls, starting Feb. 20th
(Feb 20th, 26th, March 5th, & 12th. Replays provided to those who can't attend live)
USE THE CODE VDAY25 AT CHECKOUT
Note: Spots are extremely limited to this offer so I can fully help you get unstuck in your relationship. During our zoom calls, you’ll get direct feedback from me on the patterns keeping you exhausted and resentful—so instead of spinning in frustration, questioning yourself, and carrying it all alone, you’ll know exactly what to do next to create the real change you crave.
Note: This is a self-paced course with on-demand video modules, a PDF workbook, and printable resources—so you can dive in whenever it works for you.
1 payment of $497 $447 usd
(payment Plan Available)
One payment of $797
(payment Plan Available)
$797 USD $547 USD
(payment Plan Available)
Intimate Group Coaching + Course
INSTANT ACCESS TO ALL COURSE MATERIALS
E-WORKBOOK WITH reflection exercises
lifetime ACCESS TO THE COURSE curriculum
4 weekly Group coaching calls, starting Feb. 20th
(Feb 20th, 26th, March 5th, & 12th. Replays provided to those who can't attend live)
Note: Spots are extremely limited to this offer so I can fully help you get unstuck in your relationship. During our zoom calls, you’ll get direct feedback from me on the patterns keeping you exhausted and resentful—so instead of spinning in frustration, questioning yourself, and carrying it all alone, you’ll know exactly what to do next to create the real change you crave.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long will it take for me to complete the course?
There are 13 modules, some ranging from 10 minutes to 45 minutes. Some people report finishing it in a weekend, others took time to do it over a couple months. The choice is yours.
I saw somewhere else that you're a therapist. Is this therapy?
No part of this course should be misconstrued as legitimate therapy for your mental health issues.
Can I get a refund if I don't like the course?
Due to the inherent nature of digital educational programs and the electronic transmission of same, there is a no refund policy for digital courses.
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